‘He cheated on me with girls from social networking sites!’

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Our reader needs your advice. She’s just found out her partner’s cheating on her. Problem is, she still loves him. Read her sex story and help her decide what to do!

I had been with my boyfriend for four years when I found out he was cheating on me. We were living together and were close with each other’s families.

Our relationship was a happy one until the last year, then something changed with him. He became distant, hardly ever touched me and showed me very little affection. When I brought it up he became argumentative or said he was tired. He ignored my requests to talk it over, even when I resorted to sleeping in the spare room.

I then found out why he was being so cold. He goes away on a lot of business trips and I discovered that he had cheated on me every time he went away. He searched for girls in the local area on a social networking site and met up with them when he was in town. I discovered that this had been going on for two years!

When I confronted him about it, he denied it to my face. He got angry and accused me of making it up, he even had me doubting myself for a moment. I told him we were breaking up anyway and the nicest thing he could do would be to tell me to my face, but he still lied.

Everyone thinks he is such a perfect boyfriend: a kind, generous gentleman, but he just seemed angry that he’d been found out. I can just imagine how he turned the charm on these girls to get them into bed.

I felt, and still feel, sick about what he has put me through. I feel like dying because it hurts so much. I love him so much and didn’t expect this to happen to us. I was crying for days, barely eating a scrap. I’m trying to hate him for being so cruel to me but am finding it hard ’cause I still love him. I know there is no turning back and it’s good that I found out now rather than later, but it still hurts. What should I do? How can I get over him?

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