‘My mum and I are pregnant by the same man’

Hello, my name’s Kim. I’m 16 years old and I would like to share a crisis that I have no idea how to get out of.

My boyfriend and I were in an open relationship (bad idea) and we slept about a bit. I slept with his best friend and his second cousin, I used a condom both times and so I confessed what I’d done. He was upset but at the same time we were in an open relationship, so there wasn’t much he could say.

I then went away on holiday to Australia for a break with my aunt and discovered I was pregnant. I knew it could only be my boyfriend’s baby because I was careful with the others, so I thought I would come back early and talk to him about it.

When I came back a week early, I discovered my mother had thrown a party and invited my boyfriend. The pair of them had got so drunk at the party that they ended up sleeping together and now my mother is pregnant too. What do I do? I need help.

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