This is the ultimate sex bucket list - 50 things you have got to try sexually before you die. Have a look at the sexual things everyone should experience, and see how many you've done!
Ever heard of a bucket list? It’s a list of things you should do before you die. And, seeing as how sex is loads of fun, we’ve put together this rather naughty sex bucket list for you to check out. We’re not saying you’ve got to try them all, but take a look through and see how many you’ve done and which ones you’d like to. (Just make sure your kids – or boss – aren’t anywhere nearby!)
Sex is all about having fun, exploring yourself and your partner and enjoy every minute of it from head to toe. Our sex bucket list contains a variety of different sexual activities that you can do at home, on holiday or even somewhere scandalous, like the back seat of your car.
If you fancy trying something new with your partner, or just for yourself, then browse through our sex bucket list for inspiration. We’ve got plenty to try out!
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If you’re on holiday then head to the beach one evening, ditch the bikini and go skinny dipping together. The moonlight on the water will make it romantic and the naughtiness of what you’re doing will be thrilling. Just make sure you remember where you’ve left your clothes!
Giving or receiving a love bite can be really erotic when you’re in the moment – the key is to make sure they’re not anywhere that you can’t hide with clothing, or you might get some funny looks on the school run.
Us Brits are pretty reserved as far as sex goes, so the idea of screaming and shouting while doing it may not float everybody’s boat. BUT – it’s a bit like laughing out loud. Soon after you start, even if it’s a fake laugh to begin with, quickly things start to become funny.
Make sure the kids are at their grandparents and give screaming a go. You might be surprised at the results.
If you’re off on trip with your man then start your holiday by ticking joining the mile-high club off your bucket list. OK, we know it’s a bit risky but if you’re careful you can become a member of this exclusive club and only you and your partner need ever know!
Whether your fantasy threesome is with another man or another woman, make sure you and your partner have fully discussed exactly what you both want to happen (and more importantly, not happen) before you begin. Threesomes can be really fun as long as no-one gets jealous mid-way!
As exciting as sex with someone new can be, there’s nothing better than having sex with someone who you’re completely in love with. So, if you’re lucky enough to have found that person, then make the most of them!
Sex toys are great whether you’re single or in a relationship. If you’re a vibrator virgin, don’t be put off by the huge amount of scary looking contraptions out there. Have a browse and order online to spare your blushes and then book in some quality ‘alone time’ to experiment.
Remember The Kiss in Four Weddings and a Funeral? Hugh Grant may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but there’s no doubt that kiss was one of the most romantic film moments of all time. Wait for the next downpour and get in the garden with your other half. You’ll be surprised how thrilling the wet and cold can be. (Warming up should be quite good fun too!)
Foreplay is such an important part of sex but it’s often rushed. So, next time take everything a little bit slower, and really enjoy what you’re doing. Lick your partner all over their body from their ears, to their toes and every inch in between.
(Oh, and don’t forget to get your turn too!)
There’s loads of different ways to use handcuffs during sex, but if you’re a beginner then the best way to start is by handcuffing your partner to the headboard of your bed. They’ll be so turned on by you being completely in charge! And don’t forget to switch roles so he has a turn at taking control too.
Rough sex is great every once in a while and it doesn’t always have to be your man who’s in charge. Take the lead and let him know who’s boss, he won’t know what’s hit him! Pull his hair, nibble and bite him and scratch his back – just make sure you don’t leave any lasting damage.
If you want to give your confidence a boost then wearing your sexiest lingerie will do the trick. And we promise your other half won’t be complaining.
Whatever yours or your partner’s roleplay fantasy is, from police woman to nurse to pretending you’ve just met, get dressed up and in the mood and give it a go. Roleplay
is a great way of mixing up your sex life, especially if you’ve been
together for a long time – plus, you get to play our your ultimate fantasies.
You’ll have loads of memories from times in your childhood bedroom so why not make some new exciting ones too! Head home with your partner and get down to it. (You may want to tell your parents you’re looking through old photos though, as we’re not sure they’ll be too thrilled about the idea.)
If you’ve always wondered why men love porn so much and what all the fuss is about, then get online and get watching with your other half. You never know, you might just like it.
Dirty weekends need some thought. If you want to get down to having some seriously good, uninterrupted nookie while you’re away, set some ground rules. No TV, no phones and no shopping! Book yourselves into an indulgent hotel, lock the door and promise to dedicate the time entirely to each other.
A sex tape is a good way for you and your partner to feel closer to each other and it’ll be great if you don’t live together or have a long distance relationship. You only need a cheap camera or a phone to be able to video and the results are sure to be pretty exciting.
If you are planning on making a sex tape, have 100% trust in your partner and the fact that it won’t end up anywhere you don’t want it to (and keep hold of a copy, too).
Definitely not one to try during the midday sun-bathing rush, but sex on the beach is great if you love outdoors sex. Make sure you lay a blanket down first or use a sunbed, or you might end up with sand in your bits!
Whether you’re abroad and end up meeting a gorgeous foreign speaking man or you’re at home, sex with someone who doesn’t speak the same language as you, is thrilling. The fact you’re communicating on a purely physical level will make the experience very intense.
Turn off Corie, get a pack of playing cards out and have a game of strip poker. Play with your other half and some close friends, and you won’t be losing any money – only some items of clothing. You and your man won’t be able to keep your hands off each other when your guests have left!
Everyone loves long, romantic sex; but quick ‘I-want-you-right-now’ sex can be just as fun. Send your other half text messages throughout the day explaining what you want to do to them that night. You’ll both be so turned-on by the time you see each other, there won’t be time for real foreplay!
Using blindfolds is a great way to spice up your love life – there’s nothing more exciting than not knowing where you’re going to be touched next. Take it in turns with your partner to be blindfolded and try a silky material for an extra soft feel.
Serve yourself up some dinner, on your partner’s body! It’s really sensual eating off someone’s body and a great way to explore every inch of each other.
If you own a home together then do the right thing and have sex in every room! You’ll end up with loads of naughty memories that no-one else will know about.
A 69er isn’t the easiest thing to master (or the most ladylike to be honest!) but once you get the hang of it, you won’t look back.
If your guy’s on top then don’t try and take the entire shaft in your
mouth, instead lick and kiss the head of his penis and use your hands to
pleasure him too.
Get back to nature and head out for a long walk in your local woods with your other half. Who can blame you if you need a little lie down half way round? (Just make sure it’s secluded!)
Having a one-night-stand is exciting and the thrill of being with someone new will be such a turn on. Make sure you tell one of your friends where you are, though, to stay safe.
Sex in a public toilet might not sound like the most romantic affair but when you’re in need of a quickie, you’ve got to be imaginative. Be sure to wash your hands after!
If you love the excitement that comes with the risk of being caught at it, then having sex in your partner’s office has definitely got to be on your list. Just check there’s no one working late or any CCTV cameras recording your passionate tryst.
Both women and men can enjoy a bit of light spanking during sex
and there’s scientific proof why. When you’re turned on, your body
releases endorphins that make stinging slaps feel really pleasurable –
so, if you’ve not tried it, give it a go!
Sex in a car might sound like it’s from a movie script but it’s one fantasy that’s on most people’s sex bucket list. As long as you’re in a quiet area where you won’t be seen and you watch out for the gear stick, it’s a great way to inject some passion into your love life.
If the idea of kissing a girl really turns you off, then this is probably one to avoid. But, if you’ve always wondered what it would feel like to have a lesbian experience or you’re just intrigued then, give it a go. You never know, you might like it. We bet a million pounds your other half will if he’s invited to watch!
If you feel at your sexiest in a pair of heels then why take them off when you get in the bedroom? Keeping your heels on will make you look and feel great – sounds good to us.
Every woman should have sex with a younger guy. They’ll be energetic and open to trying lots of things – and you might learn something new too.
If it’s good enough for Sting, then it’s good enough for us. Tantric sex takes a lot of practice but it’s basically slowing everything down and ultimately bringing you closer to your lover. Worth a try!
The extra vibrations you’ll feel whilst having sex whilst sat on a washing machine will help you achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.
Send sexy emails throughout the day with your partner and explain what you want to do to them when you get home. The build-up and anticipation will make the resulting sex explosive.
This would have to be the ultimate quickie, but sex in a lift or even a blow job in a lift will leave you and your partner feeling really hot. Plus, the risk of getting caught will make it all the more exciting.
Perform a striptease for your partner – we bet he’ll think he’s the luckiest man alive. If you’re feeling self conscious about your body, dim the lights and remember he’ll be loving the fact that you’re doing this for him and won’t even notice any of your lumps and bumps.
What they don’t know won’t hurt them, right? H
aving sex in your parent’s bed will give you an extra naughty thrill.
Having sex when other people are in the room will give both of you an extra thrill – the excitement of knowing any of them could find out at any time will intensify the enjoyment.
On a long and boring train journey? What better entertainment is there than having sex? So ditch the book and head to the toilet with your partner – it’ll make the journey go a lot quicker and the rocking motion of the train will increase the pleasure for both of you.
You might feel most comfortable having sex under a duvet in the pitch black, but lose your inhibitions and try sex in broad daylight! If you’re nervous about your lumps and bumps you can always leave some items of clothing on (especially if you’re in public). Go on, give it a go – we dare you!
If you don’t live with your other half, turn up at your partner’s house wearing nothing but a coat when they think you’re just popping round to watch a film. The coat won’t stay on long and your partner will think all his Christmases have come at once.
This one isn’t for everyone but if you’re intrigued as to what anal sex would feel like, then try it with a partner who you trust. It’ll be a completely different feeling to that of normal sex (and one you might like), just make sure you use lots of lubrication to make it feel more comfortable.
Whether it’s you or your partner who’s going to be the sexual slave for the night, you’ll have to do everything you’re told for the whole time.
Make sure you set some boundaries before you get going so you don’t end up doing something you’re not comfortable with.
Sending a naked photo is a great way to get your other half excited about seeing you and it’ll build the anticipation for you, too. But, if you are thinking of sending a racy photo then make sure it’s to someone you completely trust – and remember, you don’t have to include your face for it to be effective.