Baby developmental stages and milestones come thick and fast in the first two years, here's what to expect.
Your baby is the centre of your world, everything they do fascinates you as do all the different rates of baby developmental stages and milestones that they hit along the way.
What are the baby developmental stages?
From stay-still newborn to always-moving toddler. The baby developmental stages are basically a timeline of every milestone your baby will hit in the first year of their life.
Every baby is different, and it’s true that every baby develops in their own way and time, but as a general rule the timing is usually the same, give or take a month of two.
New parents tend to find themselves asking ‘when will my baby smile?’ when will my baby sit up?’, or ‘when will my baby crawl?’
So we have all the answers for you here…
When do babies crawl?
Your baby may start learning to crawl between six and nine months old.
Babies tend to learn to crawl after extensive time on their tummy. This ‘tummy time’ is important for baby as it strengthens core muscles needed to become mobile.
Though, not all babies like ‘tummy time’, so to fit it into the day simple flip baby over onto their tummy after changing their nappy.
The National Childbirth Trust (NCT) advises that, initially, tummy time only has to be for a short period, ie 5-10 seconds. It’s best for baby if you slowly build it up by 5-10 seconds each time you do it.
NCT also suggest only doing tummy time if baby isn’t hungry, tired or too full. Also, put a stop tummy time if your baby becomes distressed and shows signs they’re not enjoying it.
Never leave your baby alone during tummy time, and it helps to put a toy in their eye line or in reach for them to focus on.
At around six months old you’ll notice that baby will lie on their tummy and lift head and chest up, using arms for support.
By the time your baby hits the year milestone they’re likely to be crawling well and exploring surroundings at will.
It’s worth remembering that some babies never crawl. They miss this milestone out all together, and go from bum shuffling to walking instead.
When do babies smile?
It can be hard in the first few weeks when you feel like you’re giving and giving – every single feed, change, bath time – and you’re getting nothing back from your baby. Not even a smile.
Well worry not, by the time baby is between one and a half to three months old you should see a cute baby smile on those little rosebud lips.
Before this age you may think you are getting a smile, but did you know that all newborns are born with what’s known as a ‘reflex smile’?
According to doctors this smile is similar to the jerky arm and leg movements your baby’s body experiences as it goes through the equipment-testing process. Soon enough, though, your little one will flash their first real smile, on purpose.
How do you tell the difference between a reflex and real smile?
It’s all about the timing and duration. As a rule, a reflex smile tends to be shorter and occurs randomly, when the baby is sleeping or tired.
But a real smile, on the other hand, occurs in response to something, like seeing your face or hearing a familiar voice.
If your little one hasn’t smiled yet, don’t worry. Try talking to your baby more often, making eye contact, blowing raspberries and smiling throughout the day.
Though babies are developing their ability to regulate their emotions and may look away if they are feeling too over stimulated – don’t take it personally. Just give them a break and try again later.
When do babies start teething?
You can expect your little one to start showing signs of gnashers around four to six months old – it’s one of the most painful of the baby developmental stages. Though it could be earlier or later – some babies won’t have any toothy pegs until 12 months old.
Not all babies show signs, but usually the first red teething flags are that your baby may be teething is excessive drool and continued chewing on their fists/rattle/muslin//you – basically whatever they can get in their mouth at the time.
According to the NHS here may also be a chin rash, sleep problems, low grade fever and generally more fretful than usual – though if you are concerned at all, always see your GP.
Typically, the first two teeth are the bottom centre incisors. Followed by the top two middle teeth.
Your baby should have their full set of baby teeth – that’s 20 – by the time they are three years old.
What will my baby look like?
As good as the scans are – there really is no way to know for sure – but genetics from both parents have a lot to do with it.
‘He’s the spitting image of his father’ is usually one of the first things said about a newborn baby.
According to parenting folklore – though it was scientifically backed in a 1955 study by Nicholas Christenfeld and Emily Hill who said that newborns often resemble their fathers – it’s nature’s way of showing a biological connection.
Just because both parents have the same colour eyes that doesn’t always mean the child will have the same.
Two brown-eyed parents can have a blue-eyed baby. And, while less common, two blue-eyed parents could get a brown-eyed baby.
Eye colour is not as simple as ‘dominant’ genes, it’s determined by many genes. Traditionally dominant genes were thought to made the end product and recessive ones did not. Now gene experts know that sometimes they both do.
While considered very cute, dimples are also a dominant trait. If only one parent has the feature it could possibly pass on to baby. Similarly, your child may inherit your or your partner’s freckles, cleft chin, cowlick, widow’s peak, rolling tongue, etc.
Generally, the rule of thumb is to take the parents’ average height and then add two inches for a boy and subtract two inches for a girl.
Height is a polygenic trait—no one gene acts alone—plus, nurture factors such as poor nutrition could prevent a child from reaching their potential height.
When do babies sit up
The art of sitting up is through mastering head control. From about four months onwards your baby developmental timeline will see neck and head muscles developing and strengthening at a rapid rate.
According to the experts at Bounty, most babies can sit without cushion props somewhere between five and seven months.
By eight months old a baby can sit for several minutes with no support and by nine months almost all babies can do this pretty well.
Keep in mind that with premature babies this milestone may well be reached at a later date than their baby peers.
When can babies see?
Interestingly in early baby developmental stages newborn babies aren’t born knowing how to see – the visual part of their brain has to work at it, their vision is less 20/20, more 20/400.
For a newborn it’s a perfectly blurry world for the first few months. Which is just as well as a newborn can only hold gaze for a few seconds at a time.
In the first week after birth and up to 3 months, babies can focus only on objects and people that are close up. The distance is no more than 12 inches from their face. That’s usually about the space between baby and the person feeding.
Around 3 weeks of age, baby can begin to hold her gaze slightly longer, averaging about 10 seconds instead of just a few.
Don’t be alarmed, though, if your newborn’s eyes appear to cross or wander. It’s common for baby’s eyes to cross during the first eight weeks, and wander up until baby is 4 months of age.
When do babies laugh?
There’s something about the sound of a baby’s laugh that makes your insides go all gooey and your voice goes all high-pitched and excitable.
On the scale of baby development they tend to let out their first little chuckle around the ages of three or four months old. But all babies’ are different and develop at different times.
Though, if your little one is cooing and gurgling, it may be soon. Those early noises are baby’s way of experimenting with their voice and sounds and learning how to move their mouth and tongue.
Similar to smiling, there is such a thing as reflexive laughing, where very young babies will laugh from nowhere. But a real life is in response to something, such as a tickle or funny sounds.
When do babies talk?
It will be during the first two years of the baby developmental stages when your baby will learn to talk.
But, as the specialists at Great Ormond Street explain, before they utter their first word baby is learning language all the time. At first baby begins with noises, using the tongue, lips and palate as well as any toothy pegs to make sounds against.
Soon these sounds and light hearted babbles make up short words. By about 10 months a mama or dada may slip out – though this could also be as early as six months.
When your baby babbles make sure to encourage this by reading and singing with baby.