‘Can I be with a bisexual man?’

I’ve been with my partner for five years and things have been a bit rocky lately because I was convinced he had feelings for a woman at work.

Last week we had a big row about this other woman, only it didn’t pan out quite how I expected. He rang me the next day saying we needed to talk – I thought he was going to say that he didn’t want to be with me anymore but instead he told me he fancied men!

I couldn’t take it in. I was sick and nearly passed out. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. He said that he’s definitely not gay but he knows now that he does fancy men as well as women.

He said he’s confused in his head but he knows that he loves me and he wants to be with me because I’m a person not a gender.

I imagined I’d spend the rest of my life with this man but this isn’t exactly what I signed up for.

I love him so much and I believe that he loves me, but can we go through life together knowing that he likes men and women? I’m 99% sure he’s never been with a man so will his curiosity get the better of him and he’ll need to experiment?

I’ve also heard some gay friends saying that there’s no such thing as bisexuals – they’re just gay people in denial.

What should I do? We are two people that love each other so much but is this too much to overcome?


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