‘Cyber sex has ruined my relationship’

About a year ago, I discovered that my husband had been having cyber sex for quite some time.

Then he started phoning a woman he’d met online until I caught him on the phone to her. Now it’s stopped and we’ve talked about it, but when we’re out together he ignores me and flirts with other women.

Our sex life isn’t very good any more, we only do it about once or twice a month. He does tell me that he loves me every day and when he’s home on the weekend, he gives me loads of kisses and cuddles. But I still don’t trust him and I wonder if he really wants to stay with me or is he just waiting for someone else to come along to have a fling with? I feel so hurt and lost.

We’ve been married for 18 years this month and have two grown-up children. What should I do – do we have a future together?

What do you think about Chrissie’s confession? Do you think her man’s pushed her too far or after 18 years of marriage should she stick by him? Have your say in the comments section below.

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