‘I’m married but have slept with two other men’

I’m 27 years old and have been married for two years in October, but we’ve been together for much longer. I’m married to an older man who’s 50 and lately I’ve been unfaithful.

We don’t have any children and he works nights so it’s hard sometimes and as a result, I’ve slept with two other men. One is a bloke I met on the internet who lives in the next town along from me. We’ve only done it once because he’s married with a kid.

The second time happened when I went to London to visit my family. I met up with an old friend who I haven’t seen in years and we ended up having sex. I enjoyed the sex both times but now I feel really guilty.

I do love my husband and I know he loves me but he’s not an affectionate person. I’m always on the computer and recently I met another bloke who I’ve got quite friendly with. We’ve had sex via the web-cam and are chatting a lot.

I know I’m bad and it’s got to stop but I just can’t and there’s no way I could talk to my husband about it.

Please help – I don’t know what to do.


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